Spiritual Guidance

The Lighted Ones

Questions and Answers

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Dear Lighted Ones, My name is Michelle. I live in Houston, Texas. I am 39 years old. My birthdate is 4/18/66. Can you please tell me if I am going to be fired by my current employer? If so, can you please tell me when? No matter how hard I work to please my boss, I cannot seem to make her happy. She constantly gives me one direction, only to turn around and tell me something entirely different several weeks later. It is not a matter of her changing her mind about what she has told me in the first place, it is her swearing that the new protocal was this way always. I never received training for my position.....just bits and pieces of information over the 8 months I have been there. My workload is enough to keep several people employed on a full time basis. The bottom line is that this job is quickly killing my spirit. I decided several weeks ago that I am ready to switch to a career in sales, but I have no experience and I am fearful the decrease in income will be detrimental to my financial well-being. I am the sole support for my 13 year old son. I also now have a mortgage and a car note. My parents have helped me in the past, but I am reluctant to lean on them again. My boss is so volitile that I am terrified that she will fire me the next time I stand up for myself (which I have started to do, on a very polite basis, of course), before I can find a job in sales. Please tell me that my guides and angels can keep this from happening until they can place me with a job in sales that will offer me financial and emotional stability! Love and light!! Michelle

Let us say this to you. Your fears will manifest if you are involved in their energy. You can and will create the job harmony you seek by knowing that it is there. The job you are presently involved in will continue until you have reached a place in your heart that knows you can have it all. Abundance, great conditions to work in, and a loving atmosphere to create your ideas. Put forward what you desire for the enegies to assist in the manifestation process. Be still and find within you the spirit and determination that is strong within your being. Most of all remain positive in the thoughts of your dreams and believe in you. Call upon the beings of light that are about you and ask them for assistance. They are there to assist you also. --The Lighted Ones

I am lady aged 32, born on the 25th Feb 1974. I am feeling so down about my life at the moment. I would like to know if i will ever meet a life partner and get married. I am very loney. Besides this i am thinking i am in control of my life career wise. Not such an intelligent person but i survivor.

Let life bring forth a wave of generosity. Let life bring forth your dreams by being Love. You have much to accomplish in this world and our thoughts on this matter is that you will do this not alone but with a partner. Believe in your Love within and you will see its result in your world. With love, --The Lighted Ones

I would like to know if i list on line with jse will there be any chances of me succeeding in this part time deal, I intend selling my house sometime this year do you think its a good move and also I would like to know whether the payout for my late husband have been completed

What we can tell you is that any venture that you participate in fully and with Love you will suceed in. A move is not in the immediate future as your stability in location is important at this moment. You can and will be destined for that at a later date. Remember that each movement towards joy and love will bring harmony within. Our love to you, --The Lighted ones

Hi, (1978 June 07) I am at an interesting juncture on my life where things are balanced between success and failure. Work is positioned very well and it is satisfactory. There is definitely room for improvement in terms of my personal output at work and also what I can get out of my job. Family life is very stable with the birth of our first child. Private business is at a point of expansion. I would like to know what my academics will look like after this year and what they will bring for me as I am still trying to get my qualifications. X

As of now your life is complete and each moment that you bring forth an idea of your choice you bring that thought into manifestation. Remember to give thanks or gratitude every day for the flow of joy in your world. Create the job you choose through desire and excitement, create your life by believing in yourself. You are at a point where bringing forth your ideas of what you choose to do is important.... for creativity is extremely high. Give yourself time to be still and in that stillness ask for inspiration to come. You are indeed blessed with love. ----The Lighted Ones

Thank you for sending this message, 2/17/06 Keep believing in your abilities to bring forth extreme happiness, joy, and love in your personal world and it will be so. I think its appropriate because I was considering applying for a position within the company. Will it work for me? Sweetness Fourie

You will be happy by expanding your creative dreams. Know that any new venture that brings excitement within is an opportunity to fulfill and expand upon your momentary goals. Lead on and let your thoughts be happy. In action of thought brings new adventures.
-- The Lighted Ones

Hi I would like to know I am getting married in August and I have funny feelings and I’m also scared it wont work I don’t want to divorce if I do get married, is it okay should I go on, born 30.06.75 my fiancé born 17.07.63, Regards V

Follow your heart and not your mind. Your fears are groundless when you live in the moment. Life is a never ending avenue of thoughts that bring fulfillment when the heart actions are aligned in the moment. You create for the future your fears as well as your dreams when you focus attention on those aspects. Be at peace and ask how your heart is feeling at this moment. Quiet your mind and be happy.
--The Lighted Ones

Hello, my birthday is 4/28/49, 4:56pm in Cleveland, Ohio. Will i find employment soon? I been taking computer classes at a Government employment agency. Will this help me find a job. Thanks, Sharon of Ohio

You will have a job when this month is completed and you feel ready to do so. Put your heart in knowing that there is a position available for you and then be still. Relax and know that this is opening up for you. Follow your intuition which will guide you to be at the right place at the right time. Trust in your abilities to create an ideal situation and do so with love. --The Lighted Ones

Hi I'm currently working as fulltime employee but I"m just not getting anywhere in terms of satisfaction and progress and feel I can do much better with my life, in such a way that I've been thinking and now have made a decision of venturing into my own business which is building construction...I have done a research of the industry and I'm mentally & physically prepared to go out there and take the risk. I would like some guidance if I could go ahead with it..Pls I would like a prayer of guidance to help me overcome any mishaps that I may face in my journey. Thnx

First of all let us say to you that love creates. In all that you do put love first, come from your heart and know that this opportunity is blessed with joy and harmony. Once you have done this believe in all that you are doing to be forever blessed with right action. Know that as you believe you create. Believe in you and you believe in life. Follow your internal guidance, for this guidance will lead you where your heart wants to go. There is no need to create mishaps , see only opportunities to become greater. Blessings, --The Lighted Ones

good morning, i need to make a choice between the job i'm doing now and going to business, which has positive prospects? and i am uncertain about my relationship, is he real? can i trust him? thanking you, Delisile

To remain stagnant is an option that the soul would choose only under duress. Follow your heart and take chances when the outcomes feel right inside your heart. You will only find success when you are willing to risk security with love. And in regards to the relationship you spoke of we can only say this to you, Can you trust your heart? Can you take the chance and see Love everywhere you look. Are you willing to Love without the worry of a result that may or may not happen? Be a risk taker and follow your heart. Enjoy the life your soul came into being by living fully. Be in peace, --The Lighted Ones

We just got married in September last year and we going through very tough financial difficulties. Even before the celebration, we still had money problem, does this mean it’s a phase that will pass or will it always be like this? Secondly, Will my husband’s interfering family, friends and neighbors stop bothering us any time soon? Thirdly, My boss has just recommended me for a project coordinator position, I’m so nervous that I’m wondering if I’ll be competent in such a very challenging position. Please advice Thanks Yours in Spirit Malebelo

Let us say this to you, your financial concerns will be forever plaguing you until you realize that the solution is believing in greater financial abundance. See that all you do is creating harmony in your life situation. Be thankful that you have wonderful friends and family and send them your love daily. As you love them they will become less bothersome to you. All aspects of your life bring forward your greatest opportunities to believe in your self as well as open up your heart and mind. You will be happy when you want to and satisfied with your outcomes when you choose to. You are qualified for any position that offers you a chance to be brave. Our love to you, --The Lighted Ones

I have been looking for a house for a past year or two. I would like to know if I can get a it soon or not Regards, Khazeka

Let us explain the nature of receiving to you. First of all you must know in your heart that this house is the right one for you.... make a decision, then believe it is possible . See or visualize that you are owning and living in that home. Then release the thought to the universe for manifestation. Give thanks... gratitude for an action already in manifestation speeds up the process. Meanwhile accept any offers that come your way for financial abundance to have your dream. You will always receive signs that point you towards a direction of thought and action. Trust in your inner guidance and those being that surround you. Any message in your mind of defeat must be overcome with love and positivity. Our love to you, --The Lighted Ones

Hi I am a woman of 39 years of age, single, bad with relationships. Can you please help me to understand my situation? Is there any luck for me in future to be in a steady relationship? Any possibility of being married? Desperate, Nomkhosi

Let us say this to you there are no bad relationships only relationships that allow you to see what you truly desire. Let you believe in you and see that you are worthy of a loving relationship. Let you see yourself in that relationship and know that the wisdom of choice has brought you to this fulfillment. Believe and you create. Blessings, --The Lighted Ones

I am looking for a job, I would like to know if I will get a job anytime soon?

Relax and be in peace for choice is just around the corner for you. If you would focus on what position you would like to assume the choices would manifest more quickly. In love you create what you desire most, --The Lighted Ones

Hi, We (my wife and I) are expecting a baby due in March. I have been having bad dreams lately. I just need to know if they are both going to be ok. Moahi

Yes they will be fine. Your innate fears are giving you these dreams. Stop worrying and relax to enjoy the process of creation in its harmony that is intended. Your stress will be only creating tension within you. In Light, --The Lighted Ones

I am lost. I am a healer, and I have been working on my healing abilities for the last month. I am a web developer also. I am low on money, and I feel the need to move on. To the next thing. Where should I look to for assistance? Should I be doing more self-healing before I try to do other things? Thank you. Light and Love to you -Patrick

Let us say this to you... Follow your heart to where you choose to be. Do what brings you joy and you will find success. Do not judge your success to that of others and know that love and joy are common denominators for success. Call upon your inner wisdom and guidance for assistance. Meditate and release your dreams to the universe to be created. Believe in your abilities to draw to you those that seek your gifts and you will be busy. Always with your heart and always with gratitude. For indeed you are blessed. The Lighted Ones

Right thinking is not thinking but listening within."

I found that quote online and it was attributed to coming from your site. So I checked it out and there it was. Normally I would just move on past such ignorance but the level of this was too big. Do you really think NOT thinking is a good thing? What do you get when you don't think, you get a bunch of shaved monkey running off of brain stem, savages running around. It wasn't that long ago that people were sitting around in the mud just like every other animal on this big ball of mud hurling through space. What got humans out of that is their ability to THINK. It took thinking people to drag you out of the mud. Not thinking or as you say "listening within" gets you a whole bunch of people sitting in the mud doing rain dances and putting feathers in their hair to appease invisible gods. "Listening within", blaming god or calling on spirits are all just short cuts around THINKING. It is for the lazy people who don't want the burden of thinking. Perhaps you should change the quote to something like "Don't think, wait for god to miracle a thought into your head". I don't expect you to change just because I have emailed you, I don't even expect a reply, but MAYBE (and this is a long shot) you MIGHT just think about something for once. The quote I noticed on your site when I visited today was "Can you think of something nice to do for someone today?" Yes I can, and I think I have just done it, I have given someone a spark they might use to think with, I have done my part, what you do with it is up to you. Something to THINK about. --JA

Listen to this, perhaps right thinking could dispel the beliefs currently in your life. Listening within allows the truth of any situation to arise and then you can either belive or not, act upon or not, you always have choice. Listening within is allowing truth to unfold in its clarity and allows you the opportunity to be in an extended array of information that is not present when you are letting the mind control your thoughts. There are many ways to approach thought and allowing the past to interfere with the present is what the mind does best. There can be no hope for a world that does not allow the intervention of God answers through the physical body. There is only love when you first act from your heart instead of your mind. Believe in what you choose and realize there are always other ways to create a balanced world.

--The Lighted Ones 10/29/05

Hi Pamela,

Please can you tell me if I must go ahead with this friendship which will led to a relationship? Do you think I must go to the UK to work or must I stay here and change companies

ELLEN

You must follow your heart and find what it is you want to do. Once you have made the decision then by all means follow that decision. You can manifest all that you want by believing and trusting that your desires can manifest.

No one can make your decisions for you as you have choice to do what you choose is for your highest good. Love and be love.

The Lighted Ones

There are many things going on in my life and I am wondering how to contact my spiritual guides in order to help combat all these negative forces which are being sent to me. Is there anything that I can do to destroy this evil for good? I also know there is something that I must do to be of service to the whole of mankind. I have studied many healing techniques and somehow I just don't seem to have the opportunity to use any of them since I re-located to the UK from South Africa last year.

I also started a new job recently.There are many challenges and opportunities. Will I be successful?

I would like to call you if possible.

I thank God for giving me this opportunity for I have been seeking for help and assistance for quite some time now.

Love and Light

Faeeza

Let us start by saying to you that negative influences can only work with you if you choose them to. Life is about focusing on those positive effects in your world. Let your mind relax its hold on you and be at peace. You are in control of your destiny now. Only focus on what you desire rather than what you do not desire. Be at peace and let life unfold for you in the way that it is... joyfully and with hope for a life worth living.

As for you job situation ...you will find that it can be as creative as you want it to be. Do not limit yourself in any way and you will reap the rewards of Joy.

In all ways your life is destined to be great when you see yourself as being great, and the opportunities to present your gifts to the world will arrive quicker than you believe possible.

In light and love our blessings go out to you,

The Lighted Ones

I am currently working but I do not get satisfaction and progress in terms of growth. Secondly my relationship does not seem to sparkle or promise the future because my partner keeps on betraying, lying and he just disappears without saying where he is going. I have applied for a job abroad for a better salary and change of environment. I also feel bitterness and depressed when I think how my boyfriend is doing to me and even what my ex-husband has done me.

Please assist me to explore my future about my life as a whole.

Let us say this to you... your life can change in an instant. You must first believe in yourself, and believe in your abilities to create a better environment for yourself. There are many challenges facing you when you do not want to believe in your own abilities to create life differently and there are only opportunities when you respond to life with an open and loving manner. Love yourself and see if life changes, love yourself and do what brings you joy and fulfillment. Take a moment to meditate on what you desire and what would bring you joy... and follow the answers that you receive. Now is the time to open to your true potential as a Divine being. Recognize within your own divine qualities and let them be your guide. Being happy is a natural state for one who recognizes their own worth in this life. Be happy and be whom you truly are and you will see your life change.

Blessings be to you,

The Lighted Ones

My name is R P.

I have been involved in a friendship with a male friend, A K from Mumbai, India for the past three months. During this time our friendship has grown very strong and we were considering getting to know each other better. Amit has confronted his parents on our relationship and they have objected to me on the grounds that I am of a different culture. Amit still wants to remain my close friend.

I would like a prayer to help our situation, and if possible some guidance on whether I should continue with the friendship.

Thanks

Never give up your friendships nor your loves. All is as it should be. Your life is destined for greater things than you can even imagine at this time. Just live with what is offered to you and be friends. Love in any form is the greatest gift of the human soul.

Blessings to you,

The Lighted Ones

Thank u for answering my questions,

I am placed in a predicament of finding a permanent job, I am currently in a temporary position which is to be made permanent soon. I have been on maternity leave for the past four months and the person standing in for me was offered my position, I am deviously being worked out of what should really be mine.Should I approach senior management and let them what is going on or should I just let it lye and finish off work at the end of the month and seek other employment, Right now it seems as though I am fighting a loosing battle, Will it be worth me effort????

Thank You

Today is the day you need to live not tomorrow. Please remember that at this time your priority is to be happy. Will it make you happy to work in an environment where you feel resentment? or would you rather find a more harmonious workplace? We ask that you seek a few moments of quiet and find out what your heart says. Let love guide you to your truth. Put fear (in all it's forms) out of the way and ask yourself what would bring you joy. Tha answer you find may surprise you. Once you have reached that joy inside let you be guided towards that goal.

The Lighted Ones

Thanks, I would like to know whether I should carry on working on the job I am now doing, very hectic and feel used.

Also we my husband & I would like to move to semi retire, where and when should we start doing this. Both very tired, have done a lot for others, it seems this is what we are meant to do, getting old, I am 67yrs old and my husband 64 years old, he brings in he main income.

Really need an answer am in the middle.

Thank you, Hilda

Good day as each day is a wonderful time for a new experience. Life is about experiences and joy.

What you could be asking yourself is whether or not you are happy in your present circumstances. If you are not then it is time for change, and change could be very worthwhile for both of you. Let each of you meditate on what you really want. What brings you joy and happiness within. Then allow that to be your determining factor. We are unable to tell you what to do, only to advise you on how you can receive your own answers. It is time to release the patterns of the old and embrace the future with joy. Ask within when you are in a receptive state and you will receive the answers you seek. Know that there is a divine plan and you both will fullfill that plan and be happy. Do not let the past crowd in on your meditative time. Be present with the feelings within and open up to receive.

The Lighted Ones

Thank you for reading my email. I am 51 year male living the UKand have always been sceptical about the spirit world etc but in recent months my life has taken a complete change due to the fact I have become aware of 2
guides I have. Thru gentle meditation I can connect and wonderful things have happened. My question to the lighted ones is where do I go from here, I am an absolute novice at this and need some education on how to use my gift
and also why did I get it? Any help or guidance would be most gratefully recieved.
Thank you David

"Thank you for your question. In all matters of spirit remember that there is no separation in thought. Nor is there any separation in spirit. Thusly when one desires avenues of awareness to open, they indeed do so. Your life is the product of the world coming into these realizations. You are in a position in which you can utilize your gifts to give back to the world what it needs most right now, understanding and love. Listen to the love that speaks to you in all ways and know that only through love will you find your true calling, that of an advisor and participant in loving change. Be at peace and know that your life is just beginning to open up for you. Relax and seek the love that wells up inside. Speak and hear the harmony of your words resonate into the world of form. Be at peace and know that the answers you seek are due to the questions you ask and you will be given those answers through the day to day life you lead."
12/9/04 The Lighted Ones

Hallo

I am 35 years old. I have moved to the East Coast of South Africa 18 months ago. I am really struggling with making a living here. I have tried a lot of different business ideas, but nothing seems to work. I don`t want to work for somebody. I have been living of my saving since I have been here. My money is running out, and I am really scared. Did I make a mistake in moving here? Will I be able to find something that will generate an income? I really enjoy living by the coast (being a cancer). I just don`t know what to do.

Thank you,

Zuret

Let us say this to you, first of all perhaps you might want to consider working for someone else, doing something you like to do. Have you given thought to doing this just because you have an opportunity to meet with others? The universe is creating life for you and many of your wishes require being with people you may not normally meet with, and get to know. We say relax and do something else for a short time. You may be pleased with the results.

The Lighted Ones

Hi there,

I just wanted to say thank you for all your time and effort put in to guiding others!

I have been feeling a little lost along my life path and have been going through a process of trying to understand my "self" and others for a while now and also aiming to find my true life purpose and life

lesson in this lifetime because I feel that I have something special to give towards humanity/environment/animals through my creativity, I would really like guidance in this matter from yourself but not too

sure if I am forcing destiny and that it maybe it is something that should be unfolding naturally? Is there a specific technique/way for example through meditation, or by yourself getting in touch with my guides/entities to find out my life lesson and purpose? I was thinking about having a regression into the spirit world through a

LBL practioner (Journey of souls - Dr. Michael Newton) although this is a costly route. I also wanted to know if I was an more evolved soul or a younger one.

thank you again for your time & energy

with love from

Tam

This is an avenue of discussion that may take awhile. First of all your life path is the one you are living right now. You are guided by many entities or guides that are ever present and easily accessible. You need just sit in silence and ask for them to make themselves known to you. At first you may feel that you are thinking thoughts until you realize that this is not you. They may not give to you your life lesson or purpose but will guide you to becoming divine or awakened to your own self, your true self, your divine self. By becoming alight with your true being your path will be very clear to you. For you see this is your time to be whom you are in entirety and live in a state of knowingness. It is through this that you will find creative inspiration to assist others.

You are an evolved soul willing to come to this era of time and assist through light.

The Lighted Ones

THANK U FOR TAKING THE TIME IN READING MY MAIL

PLEASE CAN U ANSWER MY QUESTION,

MY HUSBAND,NARESH AND I ARE EXPECTING OUR SECOND BABY AND MY PREGNANCY WAS TERMED HIGH RISK, DUE TO A FEW COMPLICATIONS

WILL WE
HAVE A NORMAL HEALTH BABY....???

MY HUSBAND AND I WENT THROUGH EXTREMELY BAD FINANCIAL STRESS RECENTLY, I LOST MY JOB DUE TO RETRENCHMENT, ALTHOUGH I AM CURRENTLY WORKING ON A TEMP BASIS (WILL I EVER BECOME PERMANENTLY EMPLOYED AT THIS PLACE OF WORK),

MY HUSBAND BECAME AN EXCESSIVE GAMBLER AND WE LOST OUR CAR AND SOME OUR POSSESSIONS TO THIS ILLNESS OF HIS......

I HAVE NEVER FELT SO LOW IN ALL MY LIFE ....

MY MAJOR WORRY IS PROVIDING FOR THIS BABY..

PLEASE TELL ME IF T EVER WILL BE SUCESSFUL AND PROSPERUOS IN LIFE.??

THANK YOU, PAMELA

LOVE

RON..

Life is a beauty to behold. You must know that life is created through thought and mind thinking is important now. Relax and project what you desire rather than what you do not desire. It may just be challenging for a moment and then change can occur. You must believe in change for the highest good of all. Believe in you and become great through that aspect. Worry will create blocks to the belief and creation of what you desire.

Blessings,

The Lighted Ones

I have been on my own for so long and have now met a special man, only to find he has a problem with money and gambling. How can I help him overcome this problem and be the really special person he can be, especially for his childrens sake. Is he the one for me? Thank you.

Roz

Let us say this to you, without his willingness to create within himself the desire to overcome these aspects, you cannot help him. If his desire is for this, then you can support him in his endeavor. Is he the one for you? Let us say this to you, only within your heart will you know. How is it that you can ask this question and not know the answer already? Life will bring to you what you believe you desire. Is he what you were asking for?

The Lighted Ones

Dear Pamela,

My name is Belinda Liebenberg and I live in Pinetown, Durban South Africa. I am happily married to my wonderful husband, Andre and we have been blessed with a son, Anthony, now 13 months old.

I have had terrible health problems. My health started to deteriorate when I was pregnant with my son, Anthony Jack. He has Down Syndrome but has been a blessing and joy to all that know him. From my second trimester I suffered with high blood pressure and my gynae ignored the signs of pre-eclampsia (also known as toxaemia).

My family GP picked it up and treated me for it. I then

went on to have an emergency c-section for Anthony's birth

and it was quite traumatic.

I picked up a huge amount of weight during the pregnancy

(30 kilograms) which the gynae was not interested in very much.

He said he would sell me some health products after the birth and

put me on a weight management programme to lose the weight.

I never went back to him.

I have tried everything to lose the weight. I have tried all the gimmicks and pills on the market

as well as following a sensible diabetics eating plan and then an eating plan that is administered by

a pharmacy here in Malvern, Pinetown, South Africa. Most people lose up to 15 - 20 kilograms

in the 12 weeks. I have lost a total of 5kg's in almost six months.

I was also so motivated to exercise and now I am just too tired and exhausted to do anything

anymore. I'm just so de-motivated by not being able to lose the weight.

I was 53 kilograms before I fell pregnant and am now 75 kilograms. I'm 5ft 3in.

I have been to several specialists and doctors and tried many but no-one can tell me why I am

unable to lose weight.

Please could you ask The Lighted Ones if there is a more pressing problem that I am not taking note of?

I have asked a psychic healer for help for all the bad luck that had befallen us for such a long time, and he said that some one had cursed me and my family and that he had tried to clean these "bad spirits" from our home and our hearts.

Please help me to get in touch with my guides. I used to be able to channel my energy but have not been able to for a very long time.

Love and hugs to all

Belinda

Life is an adventure in understanding the mental or the mind. You have been trying hard rather than believing or knowing yourself to be thinner. You are not harboring any bad spirits or been cursed with anything other than your your mind. Believe in you now and the weight will be gone. Believe in what you are... a thin and beautiful woman and then it will occur naturally. Life is an understanding of your own divine nature and how you create life in the physical form. You are healthy and that is what you could be telling yourself. So not let the mind interfere in any way. As for connecting with your guidance, remember they have never been away from you, just let you become still in the mind and you will again feel their essence.

The Lighted Ones

: guidance for me and my child

My son is 11 years old. I have been told by two spiritual advisors that he is a spiritual prodigy and that he is a very wise soul. I do feel blessed that he is my child. I love him very much. He has just entered the 6th
grade at a new middle school. He has always been very difficult to discipline, but lately, with the change in school and perhaps a dose of new hormones(?), he has become disrespectful, unmanageable and destructive on
occasion. I do not know how to discipline or guide him through this new stage. Please help me!

There is much to say about a soul who refuses to conform with the acceptable ideas of the public. First of all indeed he is a special soul and you must treat him as if he is only a child with discipline problems. Be stricter and
give to him options for understanding the rules of the normal procedure of relating to all individuals with respect. All souls must walk the line between their divinity and the human world. Respect is due all living things
in fact all that is spiritual also. Be strict and yet be soft.... that is the key. Speak as if he is already fully grown, as an adult. Do not reason with him, just be factual. Give him a choice and show him through your
actions the truth of those words. There are many currently facing the same problems as you feel you are facing and we would advise the same to each. Violence is not a solution and action created first in mind with the results
you seek is the way of the upcoming world energy. There needs to be respect in order for a soul to exist in the new energy of the world.
09/01/2004-- The Lighted Ones

I switched jobs a year ago at the age of 56 and am very unhappy. my coworkers who have been there for years are mean to me. I consulted a tarot card reader who said she sees me getting another job. She also told me that a relationship around me will end traumatically and I will seek the advice of a good lawyer. Now I am afraid. what can I do to get over this feeling of impending doom.

First of all you must believe in you. Things do occur in the physical realm

and yet some are brought on by your belief in their occurrence. You are in

charge of how you feel at any given time. That is the nature of your divine

self. You can worry or you can live life with an expectation of joy. Live in

the moment and you will dispel the gloom you are experiencing. Live in your

mind and you think of that which has not or may not occur. You have choice

here, so wisely be happy and allow that happiness to be present in your

daily life.

The Lighted Ones 7/23/04

Pamela:

It seems to me that my connection with life is calming down a bit. How can

I come in direct communication with my Spirit Guides? There is a lot of

information out there on channeling but nothing so far has seemed to move me

closer to knowing who my guides are, and sensing their presence. The

Lighted One's know of my search for direction. I feel I now am at the point

of having some of these questions answered. I trust myself and my ability

to electro-magnetically draw to me these special beings of light.

Thanks, once again,

Bernie

You are always in communication whether or not you are aware of it. No one

comes to the Earth plane without guides. Whether or not you choose to

respond to them is your choice, they are always there. As for sensing their

presence, that is for you to be asking for and open to receive. It may come

as insights , thoughts, or information. It has always came to you as a

signpost in various times in your life. You can receive as easily as you

think thoughts, but the trick is to release the mind thoughts and

expectations you have about receiving communication. Relax, meditate on the

innermost of your heart, then ask for the information you seek. Do not

expect a booming voice for that is not how it will occur. It is like a

gentle breeze of awareness at first. Record your thoughts as you sense them

without your judgement, soon you will begin to sense the difference between

the mind and that which comes from a different source. It may take time and

you may feel desirous of quitting and yet if you pursue this you will

certainly succeed.

The Lighted Ones

6/23/04

To: Pamela

Subject: Fw: Please respond

I am encouraged by the words of the Lighted One's but I seem to be having a

problem understanding the difference between surrendering and giving up. I

believe I can let go, meaning to not feel threatened by the fear of what can

happen. I always have felt that it was God's gift to enrich our own lives

by creating our reality.

I don't think of my search as linear, yet at times, I feel the anxiety of

not being where I want to be has put me in situations that are extremely

difficult to understand. My goal for some time has been to develop an

energy source that can be accessed by everyone without regard to economical

status. My background and experiences has directed me toward the earth

sciences. I have become discouraged with the oil and gas industries

reaction to global warming, pollution and the controlling marketing of

energy in the hands of the few. I don't believe it needs to be this way.

But whatever my grandiose ideas for mankind to benefit with a less hostile

energy source, my idea to attract more finances, for further education seem

to continue to soar out of my reach. My pursuit is to further understand

and develop the molecule hydrogen and its ability to resolve the energy

crisis. My ability to pursue this knowledge seem to be overcome by these

other real problems such as divorce, bankruptcy, depression, doubt, ... etc.

I am dead broke and can not find any work even as a delivery boy.

At 5 yrs old, (1954), I was struck by a truck, and was unconscious for 12

days. A basal scull fracture was diagnosed. I had to learn to eat, walk,

talk and communicate just like a new born. But I had to do it faster than

before because I had to catch up with my piers. I grew up in an alcoholic

dysfunctional environment which probably did not aid in the healing process

either. Without getting into any more details, I believe that in 1954 I was

given a choice to continue on with my life on this planet or move on. I

know there is a reason the good Lord wants me here, but he isn't making it

any easier by having me figure this out without funds.

Is it possible for a soul retrieval to take place barring the distance

between us? Can you tell, from where you sit if this would be something

that would piece together my direction? I have often thought that my lack

of presence has stemmed from this accident and the loss of my soul?

Pamela, please continue, if possible, our communication. I feel that we may

be on to something that is contributing to my wholeness. I believe that

this process of healing will enhance my ability to help others.

Sincerely,

Listen to us, surrendering means being entirely in the moment without

judgement or thought. That is our definition of that word. Giving up is an

action that requires something of you, surrendering requires nothing. Let

your heart guide you to that which will serve you. Be at peace and move with

that which is harmonious to you. The answers to your proposed dilemma will

surface into your conscious mind for you to take action on or not, your

choice. The ability of your presence is or has always been there, again your

choice on how to perceive and your choice on what that requires of you. You

are your soul, you are your divine self. Nothing has been lost that was

always there and is always there. And in regards to your opportunities, we

have spoken about changes that will be forthcoming, all that you need to do

is be open to receive them. Remember it will not look like you have

perceived it, it will be different. All you need to do is open your heart

and allow this energy of manifestation to come forward and accept what it

shows you. Each door leads to another or each energy pattern is entwined in

another so that progress appears linear yet is always present. Relax and be

in gratitude for your life and its changing pattern.

In Truth,

The Lighted Ones

6/20/04

Pamela:

Please understand, I have been listening to the heart, being desirous of the beloved and looked for the joy in life without any contingencies. I have read all the books, stated all the prayers and mantras. I feel totally numb. How can this suffering be beneficial. I need answers now. An energy worker that I can communicate directly with. A one on one, question / answer, in a format I can understand, comprehend and process immediately. No more waiting and being patient. I am running out of time. I am running out of hope. I need the help from my angels and spirit guides. Please communicate this to them. They do not seem to be listening to me. I have developed a life with a companionship with a cruel god. A god that would send me to hell if I didn't obey the rules. I cannot shed this belief structure. By myself I can do nothing. I need divine intervention. What must I do to get it - NOW. Please help in asking your magnificent seven to give me an unquestionable, undeniable sign that I am loved. Not in the the memory of, "oh yes honey you are loved", but the genuine, god given feeling of knowing that I am ok. Not for someone else to tell me I'm ok, but for me to feel the presence of bliss. My God I cannot go any longer in being kept in this box without the ability to expand. Pamela, please help me.

Now stop thinking and begin just being your own truth. Belief in yourself is important. Not only as a spiritual human but an unrealized divine self. You are entering a time of change and with the ushering in of this change is complete doubt, and disharmony of mind. That is why we ask you to be less in mind and totally present in the moment. Change is here Now and that is the truth. You must know this then release the worry or concerns that you have. When 'in mind' the spirit cannot act as one with you. Believe in you as a divine being . When you are in harmony the messages are there within, not as a thought but rather as a knowing. You have experienced this. Bliss is experienced when the mind has stilled and the heart opened to receive. It comes as peace first. You can be in this moment and surrender to the beauty of a passing glance, the nature about you, or a child's smile. All will promote bliss when in a state of present moment. You are loved and the evidence can be seen and felt when you are least aware and concerned about it. You are loved by us.

The Lighted Ones

6/19/04

Dear Pamela,

I am writing this message out of complete confusion and desperation. My outward life is completely falling apart. My family and I have experienced a loss of home, a house eviction, a divorce, 2 bankruptcies, loss of 2 cars and numerous other problems associated with being unemployed with no money. I feel that if I loose anything else I will not make it through another Colorado winter. I live in a day to day reality of a constant realization that I have nothing else to be taken away, and still I feel afraid to commit suicide, because this will probably not solve the problem of the inability of changing my direction. I feel totally stagnated. I have been in this search for self since the 1960's, in which I could not find the answers through 4 years of drugs, through a tour of duty in Vietnam, through the study of Christianity and Buddhism, through 6 years of university study in which I attained 2 Bachelor of Science Degrees in Geology and Mining Engineering, through 30 years of marriage and career as a natural gas engineer, and 25 years of listening to Bartholomew, (a phenomena first manifesting on our plane of consciousness in December, 1977 in Socorro, NM), what else can I contribute to the search. I know you will say that I am already where I need to be and that I am what I seek, but my experience and my present awareness tells me that this is a lie.

Am I living in accordance with my blue print? I know that prior to entering this plane, that myself and other energy fields constructed a blue print in which to best bring about my realization, in this lifetime. I feel that I have totally deviated, and have gone off course from this direction. How can I feel this and know this blue print? I need to feel myself worthy of being here, in this body, on this planet. I am tired of holding on to the hope that what I am experiencing, I have somehow asked for. There must be a vaster reason why all this is all happening. I actually cannot believe that this prolonged suffering is of my choosing. But I don't know anything anymore, anyway; and I realize that I never did. What's next?

I jog 4 -6 miles everyday trying to release the depression I feel in not being able to move the barriers between myself and the divine. After running 4.5 miles this morning I sat down at my desk, began meditating, and in my consciousness came up the words, “Be that of what I am”. And to me, what I believe the Father is – is Total Love. I will continue to breathe day after day. I feel in my heart that at some point, before I die, the suffering will have stopped. I have no control over when this will happen. I have no control over anything. When it happens it will happen and the suffering will be done. I open up my heart to God and draw to me the wisdom, only He has, to know who I am. There can be no other way for me now. My responsibilities to my children are of great concern. Am I missing something? This is not any fun.

I just am looking for answers. The inability to attract money has been a frustration of mine for some time. Hopefully the Lighted Ones can shed some awareness on my situation. I need a miracle. Please respond, Sincerely, Bernie

Listen to your heart and feel the strength of love that is present. You are exactly where you need to be to realize that you are divine. Let us say this to you, in order to 'Be' just be, you have to surrender attachment to the mind. Yes, attachment to the mind. You are so close to the awareness of your spiritual self. You cannot believe this right now for all that you are experiencing, yet it is the truth. Blueprint... your blueprint has always been to assist others in their own awakening, the process has always been to surrender and you are there. Believe in change and then see the world differently. Be ever present to the eternal moment and relax. Ask for what you desire and release that desire into the universe for manifestation. There is change coming forth in your life. Believe and have faith is important, and action when change begins is important. Release the feelings of unworthiness for you are worthy enough. Believe in change. Although any aspect of living is indeed being challenged remember that change is here. Not when, rather now. You must know that change is now. You have challenged yourself to witness the differences so that you may assist others that promote disbelief in their lives. You are to be happy and that happiness is forthcoming when you remain present in the moment. We have been giving to you words that will settle into your thoughts and awareness so that you may alter when you choose. Right now would be wonderful. Listen to your inner self and know the truth that is present within you. There is nothing but Love in all life. You are love, and all those around you are aspects of Love. God is love. Be present in the moment and believe that change is here Now. And when changes begin, be ever mindful of the Love that is present in them. Give thanks for what you desire being present in your life now. That is the true secret for change. Know that it is here Now and give thanks. Thanks with belief that it is manifesting for you Now.

We do realize that any challenge promotes change, are you willing to change?

The Lighted Ones

6/17/04

-The Lighted Ones

Am I to live in a tipi in Crestone, Colorado and to find a beautiful woman to fullfill my circle of life?

-madmtmikey

The answer is still debatable. You are entering into change but your enjoyment of life has yet to fulfill itself within. We do understand the nature of your question and what we can give you is this.... you will be living elsewhere but not in a tipi, your life is changing and for that gratitude is expressed throughout your being. And as for a partner to fulfill your circle of life, remember you are one and whole within you and the blessings of a woman in your world just expands upon that, bringing about an increased ability to express that love. Yes you will find love but not in the present moment of your life, it will occur at a later date and will be least expected when it does occur. Allow the mystery of the path to unfold in divine harmony one step at a time.

-The Lighted Ones

During a channeling session you referred to my "foundation master." Can you tell me what a foundation master is and what their function is? Thank you.

Hi, the question you refer to here is really quite simple. A foundation master is one whom lays the information for completion of any cycle of soul understanding. There are many whom are involved with this aspect of a souls growth and are living in an astral form to witness and assist in its completion. Life is about witnessing the souls divine state and you are in that process of understanding. Live life with total joy and love and all is available for you to understand. We bless you
The Lighted Ones

I would like to know how to stay motivated to exercise and lose weight, to stick to
healthy eating.

"Believe in yourself is the only way you can create this balance in your life. First you must love yourself and then believe in you. Remember it is not about weight...just belief in optimal health for this souls body." The Lighted Ones

I know, I will give my best.

You are living in the past not the moment. The moment is being present with the life you are leading Now. Your mind lives in the past and thusly brings you to a state of sadness and unloving thoughts. View the world now without the past and see it differently. Be present with what is occurring in front of you. How you feel is in direct proportion to your thoughts and thoughts like those are in the past.
The Lighted Ones

Q	You know, I'm really trying, I am really trying to hang on for dear life, but its still very very difficult to be in the moment, when the moment hurts so bad.
A	Life is about loving your own self....Love yourself and choose to be great. Do not allow outside influences to control you but rather set the standard within. If you must cry, do so and then go on with a new sense of well being. Allow the past to be the past and live in this moment. The Lighted Ones

You know, I'm trying to feel love for myself and inside myself, but the pain just keeps coming back. I try to smile and pretend around people that all is o.k, but I just want to break down to my knees and weep. Its just so hard for right now, that its hard to imagine that things are going to get better. Its been a long long time since I have felt secure and happy, a very long time.

Let us say this to you. Live for this moment and put yourself in a place where you feel love inside yourself for YOU. Let you be in charge of your emotions and how you feel in regards to who you are. Let nothing disturb that feeling of worthwhile inside. You must remember that your life is due to change and focus upon that aspect. Your life is not about what he is doing but rather what you are doing. Focus on the goodness within and begin to give to yourself. Life will bring harmony into a situation when you feel harmonious inside you. How can you believe that this life you lead is anything but great? Believe in you to make changes within and all will be fine. Be pleased with yourself, give to others, see change and believe in change.
The Lighted Ones

Dear lighted one,

today, i feel in such despair. I just found out that my husband of 18 years, is now seeing someone. its hurts so much. You know I sruggled with letting him go, and this really hit me hard. I feel like everyone has someone except me. I thought I meant more to him than that. Even my daughter knew and did not tell me. Other family member knew and did not tell me. I have been trying to recover from all that I have been through, but the hole just keeps getting bigger. I'm struggling emotionally and financially. I just want to run away and die somewhere.

I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW I CAN BEGIN TO LOSE WEIGHT, I BELIEVE I
CAN DO IT BUT I'M NOT SURE WHICH WAY IS THE BEST FOR ME.KATHY

Let us say this to you, the best way is to begin seeing yourself as you choose to look, then know that as your reality. Do not focus on what is but rather on how life supports your belief in your own well being. Let you begin to see life that way and all else will begin to revolve towards your life goal. Action is a key word here. Action first with seeing and believing, then action as you recreate your life towards those goals.
The Lighted Ones

1).Hi, we haven't talked in a long time.

I have a question.

I am in deep financial trouble. I have prayed and prayed and prayed for relief. I have received none, the bills just keep mounting. I'm afraid of bankruptcy and losing my home. I'm just plain scared.

Why won't God answer me?

2).I'm trying to calm down and believe that God would not leave me in this situation, its just that sometimes, it over whelms me and i just become so afraid and frightenend myself and my child who is in highschool now and needs so much. I keep believing for a miracle, because i know that a miracle is the only way i will get out from under this situation. its like i can't feel God near me, I feel so alone.

3).I guess what i'm saying is that i don't feel God within me, i feel lonely, empty and lost. Its like i keep asking for guidance and help, and its feels like the door is just closed in my face. I don't how to explain it. I'm trying to understand what i am supposed to learn from all of this suffering in my life. Finances is not the only suffering that I have faced or am facing.

4).So are you saying that I should not be concerned about where my current situation is leading me, and just live as if none of this is happening and let whatever be be. (for instance) if i become homeless, just become homeless. I'm not trying to be funny or sarcastic either, I just confused, because i don't know what to do. I mean, I'm keeping all hope alive, but in the situation i'm in, I just have no idea what to do.

1). Perhaps you need to remember that you are not asking for help you are asking for a miracle and a miracle takes time. Listen to what is coming to you rather than what you are worried about. See how thoughts or solutions come to your mind when you have stilled the worries and live in the moment of Now. Believe in change, believe in awakening to an understanding of what your next step is. Allow yourself the opportunity to become great through this experience. Now after being in the present moment what answers do you receive? Changes are coming and what do you visualize for yourself?
The Lighted Ones

2).
God is not near you, he, it is within you as you are within your child. Relax and allow the divinity that is you to emerge and become great through this experience. Know in your heart and mind that all that you do and become is because you are a divine soul. Become through belief.
The Lighted Ones

3).Life is about giving. Giving to others so that you may give or receive for yourself. Life is not about suffering nor is it about life dilemmas, those are there so that you may wake up to understand yourself. This opportunity to begin expressing yourself as a divine being is being presented to you. Get away from thoughts that are not supportive of your reality that you choose. Instead only allow those thoughts that serve you to be present in your mind. What you are reaching out for is yourself, who you are, what you choose to become. Emptiness is a vessel waiting to be filled.
The Lighted Ones

4).It is not about becoming homeless nor is it about living as if you have none of your financial worries, it is about living as if all things have righted themselves in your mind. Solutions come when you are open to them, and openings occur when you are not concerned with your future and living in fear. It is not about hope but belief that all is in divine order. Change occurs when you believe in a different reality. Perhaps a thought will come to sell your home and move to another place, perhaps an opening will occur by showing you a path to create money in the physical world. These are ideas and solutions that can occur if you remove the worry and go to a place of calm acceptance of a universal answer. Yet you have to remove the future worries and be present in the moment of now to do this. Giving will create abundance for you. How can you give to others? How can you give with no thought of return? How can you begin to give from your heart right now?
The Lighted Ones

Would you mind asking the Lighted ones about my friend Jeannie Komsky (she is the one with lung &spine cancer

What does she need to know ?
what do I need to Know?
Or anything about the situation

What she needs to understand is that there is no limitations to what can be healed if her heart and mind is in agreement. She must truly believe it is possible no matter what solution she has decided to use to promote the healing. Second she must know that to love herself in all ways is important. The body is not giving out, it is just reflecting what she has been thinking, worrying about, or lacking in absolute love. Come to love all aspects of life as the only possibility and remember that life will begin to reflect that in the physical form. Change is not only possible but likely under these circumstances. That is the truth of all disease of the body or mind.
You, you must believe in her, support the 'belief of change' of the body. Know that all is to bring one closer to understanding the divinity of the true self. As you support her changes so do you gain in the understanding of your divine essence.
We support and send love to both of you. Love is really all there is and through love all is perfection.
Our blessings to the both of you.
The Lighted Ones

Q	Hello I had a brief question on your view on reincarnation and went to different spiritual pages for feedback.I might have emailed you before and not remember and if so please disregard this.I was born normal then had accident then brain damage.The brain does no