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I have been looking for another job for a while but no luck should I continue looking or just stay here and be miserable? I am engaged to someone but love the other and want to spend the rest of my life with the other need to make a decision but very confused as I believe they both love me…….Confused and miserable. Regards TFT

Let you be you, stay in misery if you choose or believe in joy. The choice is always yours. Take responsibility for your thoughts and be in harmony with those thought choices. If you choose to be honest with yourself you will see that you create dilemmas and not the other way around. You must make a decision with Love and honor it. In so doing you honor yourself. Our blessings be to you to find yourself in harmony, The Lighted Ones

Dear Lighted Ones, I am a 31 year old man and I am struggling to secure a better paying job to improve my standard of living. I am married with one child and my wife and child are staying at my wife’s parent house. Do you have any advice or help in order to have an opportunity to stay with my family and afford the ever increasing standard of living. Please help me. Your immediate response will be highly appreciated. Warm regards, Tumelo

Blessings to you and blessings in your creation of less turmoil. Be at peace for changes are to be soon in your world. Take an opportunity as it comes to you and know that it will lead to your wishes being fulfilled. Love all and love will be returned in unexpected ways. Our gratitude for your life, The Lighted Ones

Dear Lighted Ones In Jan 29 2005, my husband was involved in a car accident where a teenager lost his life and he was charged with culpable homicide, the case has been dragging on and on..and it's working on him, what would be the outcome, he was born 05/11/1955 I will be starting my own business and I have positive thoughts, do you see any financial breakthrough, I was born 15/10/1968 God Bless

We cannot give to you the outcome of his experiences and what we can offer is to just be knowing that the justness of the situation will be fulfilled. Let us say this also your life may lead you in directions that ultimately bring forth great joy. Be at peace and know that all of life is just. Bring forth the love and light into the situations you experience and know that as you believe ...life will fill those beliefs. That is all, simple, sweet and loving. Come from your heart and see love in all things, situations, and people. Our blessings to you, The Lighted Ones

Hi Pamela, I'm a 32 year old lady (12/12/1973), a widow, mother of one son (29/01/1995). i have the following questions: (1) the man i'm with now, (25/07/1967) have been on and off for years now. i love him but i'm not sure if he feels the same way. he wants us to have a child together, do you think i should go ahead and do this, is he going to be with me forever?. i love him very much and would really want to know if he is serious about this relationship. i'd love to have this child, do you think i can still have children? (2) i'm involved in a few business ventures, an events management company which i have stated, partnering with a friend of mine. another is a hair salon, which i've also just started with another friend of mine, what do you this is the future of all my business ventures. the ones i've started and the ones i still plan on starting. (3) my biological father, whom i've spent years apart from, is very sick. how long does he have? am i going to loose him again? Thank you lighted ones for all the insight and spiritual guidance, hope to hear from you very soon! Deli

Live for today and be happy. That is the advice we have to give you. Let life play itself out for you in all its facets of wonder. You will succeed at anything you put your Love into. You have will and determination to succeed at any venture. Your physical presence is needed on the Earth plane for more than the physical experiences. Open your heart and your mind and be at peace. You will receive your guidance in a very unique way. Blessed is he/she who brings forth joy into the world. Love is the key and your willingness to shine will be an asset to others. Be at peace and all is revealed to you. In Harmony, The Lighted Ones

I would like to know about my relationship, I have been unable to meet the right person. Latetly I met a youg woman, very tou to be my doughter. We are deeply in love. Will this work? I am looking forward to marry if things stats the same. Please help.

Let us say this to you. When love reaches its destination you are inclined to worry if you forget to be in this moment and appreciate what has come forth for you. Take today and be happy , if tomorrow continues to bring you the same joy be in appreciation. Live each day with wonder and love and cease the fear that brings forth doubts within. Let your mind and its judgements rest and just live. Whether or not your relationships in life work are due only to your thoughts on the matter. Be at peace and be happy for this moment is indeed special. With love, The Lighted Ones

Dear Lighted Ones My eldest son is 18 and working so hard to achieve the correct grades he needs to get to University (UK based). I am so worried he will fail and be heartbroken as he has set his future life based on getting the grades. Have you any help or advice to ease this on going pain? Plus my youngest son only 14 but has very painful back problems which will not go away, can you offer some remote healing for him please. David

natural flow of life. Be positive within your thoughts and in your spoken word. Blessings be to you, --The Lighted Ones

My husband is busy with his own transport bussiness and I would like to know will he succseed. I also want to know when can I move from my present job and if I move will it be for the better. Will it be good for me to go and further my studies and what field you think I can go into or do I need to start my own bussiness and will all resources be available such as funding, financial support and contracts Love Jacqueline

Do what your heart tells you would be fun and would bring out your creative possibilities. Jobs are a way to express yourself and be able to be with and meet people. You should always be in a situation that allows you the opportunity to assist others. Whatever you choose , do so with the knowing that you will succeed. Whatever you choose, do so knowing that your life will be in joy with each day. Change happens when you are ready. The time frame is yours to decide now. Always has been. --The Lighted Ones

Hi Pamela My name is Anita Jacobs born 24/08/68.Divorced single mother of two sons.My life is a mes cant seem to find a single man only married.I have a problem financially i can never seem to balance my life everything is going wrong.I am currently in a job that i really do not like do u think i should stay in it or leave. I also would love to know if i will ever prosper in my business as i do catering spare time but my friends tend to use me all the time what should i do should i continue caterring or stick to my job please let me know if i will ever prosper in life im in a relationship with a married man should i leave him or not let me know

Let us say this to you. You must change your ideas of what life is about. If you choose to be in the job you are in realize it is your choice. Advise is all we may give you. Taking your talents and marketing them would bring you joy, bringing the richness of life into your world and allowing you to be with many people. This will lead to more contacts with people whom are not in a relationship ongoing. You will succeed. --The Lighted Ones

My car has been repossessed, and I'm going for my last interview. What is going to happen to me in the next six months. Born on the 13 December 1967. Planning to get married for the second time to a lady that was born on the 24th December 1969.

Relax, spend time with you in love and blessings for what you desire in life. Meditate on your good fortune. See yourself happy and doing well. Know it until it becomes your reality. Believe in you and what you have to offer the world. That is our advice to you. Worry creates more adverse effects. Be happy and know that life is changing now. --The lighted Ones

Thank you for the inspirational answer, but I need to know if there any chances of me getting married or must I just forget. I don't need to have high hopes if its not meant to be. As I have siad that I have been in relationship for a year and I never used any contraceptives and never fell pregnant, am I ever going to have to children or was the problem with the man I was dating? Gugu

You design your world to be how you choose and believe it to be.. high hopes create a richness for dreams to be created and yet you should know that you create what you want by belief and moving into that belief as your reality. If you will do the work and know that what you desire is true for you "Now" then it will occur. Any thoughts, negating the experience you want, is to be looked at and discarded as the past and not relevant to the Now. You are able to conceive children. That we can tell you. Whether or not you will be married is up to you. Again it is important that you realize that you have to create the energies and love to set yourself in this place. This work is yours to do if you should create what you desire. In Light, --The lighted Ones

Hi Pamela I am pursuing my career in Interior Decor, studying part-time. I'm looking at starting my own business in the near future. Will this be possible? Gugu

The world is full of dreams and those that are created are those that are focused in Love. The energy that propels you to move into your future will be there if you believe in yourself and what you are doing. Love is your key force is creating your dreams and any thoughts negating that or any doubt will create obstacles in your path. Again these obstacles are created by you with doubt or fear. Believe in you to be successful without reservation and with Love and the possible becomes reality. Believing in you, --The Lighted Ones

I was born in 22 January 1967 , Sunday close to midnight in Durban. I am a Male in South Africa working in Gauteng. I am goin out with a lady called Constance Gapare, born in Zimbabwe 1st November 1970. We were once husband and wife and got divorced and we are trying it again I am sure that she loves me and I love here too but we seem to find reasons to fight again. Where is this relatioship going? Is there happiness ultimately? About a job. Am I going to stay here at Mittal Steel SA for long or I am going to move to another company. Have attended two interviews one last year and another one on the 27 of Feb. Should I move if the chance come? The main reason for want to move is because I want to be closer to her. She is in Buccleugh and I am in Vereeniging. How are finances look for the future? My life and home (parents) with her where is going. Thank you.

Look for the good always, see the positive in your relationships with everyone, and certainly finding the love in all things will set the tone for your life. Be able to be versatile in creating change, for change will come as a surprise opening in your life. Take a chance and believe in you and be positive that it leads in the direction to continued happiness. For happiness must come from within first. The Divinity in you is awakening and you might learn what it is to be free of worry soon. Blessings, --The Lighted Ones

I would like to change my career as I feel tired of doing what I am doing now. Which field can I go to? Monde

What would you like to do? What brings you excitement inside when you think about it? What will arrive as a thought the first thing in the morning and bring a smile inside? What is your aspirations? You have unlimited potential...all you have to do is create the feeling of excitement for the opportunities you desire. Believe and give gratitude for the blessings being bestowed upon you. --The Lighted Ones

I am a married lady aged 25 born 15.05.1981. Got married 22.11.02 and has a daughter aged 3 born 29.08.03. 2005 august I lost my grandmother our whole family fell apart as for me i don't have parent a sisiter who is unemployed and struggeling where I need to help and I sometimes can't. Pls tell me will our lives ever get better and what is God's plans for me in my marriage, my career and also in my spiritual life with him because at this point and time I don't have a church I belong to and to date my daughter was never baptised since she was born Love Jacqueline

Let us say this to you. Your daughter is baptized in life. She was born Divine and will eventually die in the same state. There is only love emanating from her. Be pleased for she has many great opportunities ahead of her to assist the world. Your life is changing and we see that an opportunity is coming your way to remove some of the worries that you have had in the past. It will be directly relating to yourself. Your family are the people you love and those that love you. So you see you have an extended family you have yet to meet. Life is a joy to be involved in. God's plans are your plans. Believe that the opportunities coming your way are ones created in Love by you and inforced by a loving universe. With Love and belief in you, --The Lighted Ones

Dear Lighted Ones, I find myself in a job that provides me with great financial stability but no personal fulfilment. I feel I am unable to pursue my real interests because I am unable and unwilling to give up the financial stability that my job affords me. My husband earns less than I do and will not be able to support us on his income alone. Thank you for your answer. TN

What you should realize is that your dreams will be fulfilled only when take the initiative to make them come true. The universe will support your truth and you must stand in that truth. At this time you believe it is impossible so you have created that. Believe in your dreams and stay focused on them. Believe in you and the ability to have your dreams manifest. You must know that in order to create your desires. In Love, --The Lighted Ones

Hi Pamela I am a single mother, aged 32. I have had bad relationships (I would say they haven't worked because the people I got involved with were cheating) I lately dated a married man of 42, who had a problem because his wife couldn't have babies and they have been together for 10 years, married for +/- 4year and the wife had a child from the previous relationship. This man had plans of divorcing his wife beacause of this problem and marrying me. We dated for a year and I decided to end this relationship, reason being that this man expected me to have a baby for him while he was staying with the other woman and I could tell that he didn't want to leave his wife, apparently for funds that he had accumulated/policies or some other reasons. I decided to quit this relationship, it was not easy especially because we had made plans for the future. I am doing well financially and careerwise.This man is still married staying with his wife, but I have decided to give God a chance to decide for my life (for he knows what my desires are) I have taken a stand with my life, not to date or if I do I won't have sex until I get married. My questions: am I ever gonnah get the right partner, if so how soon. Is this man having a problem in bearing children, as I have not been using any contraceptives while I was with him but nothing happened? Can I give him another chance if he wanted to come back? Please help, confused Mpumie

Let us say this to you... all situations have a way of repeating until you believe in yourself. You follow the rules that govern the material world, we see the rules of the universe that are more in play with the situations of your life. Please recall that your actions are very important, your thoughts are very important, and to manifest what you desire, which is love, you must believe in that possibility for yourself. Create in your mind the love you want to share with another. Do not put forth whom but rather what you wish to experience and when you have done so revise it till you have it perfect. Release and know that what you desire will be coming to you. The past is the past and now you will create a future worthy of your dreams. Love is always the key to great opportunities. In Love, --The Lighted Ones

Hi! I was born in 30/11/1971 i would like to know that will i ever meet a life partner and get married? i am very lonely i need a man whos gonna make me happy and marry me. please help! Kind Regards Nellie

You can create the ideal situation by believing in you. Take what you desire into reality by moving into a state of joy for change to arrive. Know that your loneliness is a preview of what you do not choose. So be happy inside and let that energy vibrate out. It's attraction qualities will create the opportunity for involvement rather quickly. The Lighted ones

I would like to know if the man I'm engaged to is the right one? Is it the right time to change jobs will I get another job soon? Regards Thobile

Please remember if there is dissatisfaction in any regard it is time for you to look within you and tell yourself that you are looking for the reasons. You may find that you are happier than you believe. That dissatisfaction is just a minor fear and can easily be erased with understanding. You will always grow and change, this is the nature of life. Grow with pleasure for each moment and you will be free of worry. Be advised that your life is indeed blessed. --The Lighted Ones

Dear Lighted one My mother left for exile in 1961 and got married to a foreigner. She still lives out there but has no children for her husband. She brought up six of his children. they are now adults and she is bringing up the grandchildren. She visits SA every two years. I've discovered shes unhappy. She's in a trap she cant escape. AM her only biological and my daughter her only biological grandchild. we miss her and we need her. How do we get her back with us for good. Please her. She is 77 and am 54 ( may 13 1951) my daughter is 19. Glory

Just be aware that change will come slowly for this situation. It may be a few years till life rearranges itself into the harmony you seek. Meanwhile to speed up the process you might have her and you focus on the outcome you both desire and believe only in that. Believe that change is possible for all of you and live this moment with a gusto for life. If you stay in thoughts of unhappiness you relinquish your right to be truly happy and live this life accordingly. There are many more reasons to see and be joy right now. Be with that and shifts within will occur, to pave the way for change. Our blessings to you, --The LIghted Ones

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