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I am enjoying reading the questions and answers on your website. I am working through much reading and forms of guidance to live the lighted way. My question is - how can I best relate to my spouse and partner who may have differing dreams and thoughts but is not willing to discuss our life together with me; how can I do my part of the doing to create my dreams when they overlap with what is also belongs also to him? |
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Listen to us carefully, when in relationship the dreams are a common energy. In fact they are intertwined. When you create for yourself...you create love, joy , abundance, the perfect home, the ideal relationship and whatever that is that is perfect for you will appear. When it differs from another then a choice comes to that soul. For your answer we would say that your dreams are ones that include more than you and would be advantageous to you both. Relax and allow the universe to best find the meeting ground of dreams and give thanks. In light of your understanding, --The Lighted Ones |
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I want to know about my career, marriage & financial status thanks |
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When you believe in you , when you follow your dreams, when you know what it is you want in life and move towards those goals ..then the world opens up for you and all of your dreams can come true. You are entering a time when knowing what you choose in this world is important. Let yourself spend time in quiet meditation and allow yourself time to be connected to the universe daily and more in your life will open up for you. In joy, The Lighted Ones |
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My in-laws and have been living with me for the past 11 years and it is a challenge from day to day….do you see this continuing for a very long time? |
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We do not see the end of this involvement anytime in the near future. Please understand that relationships can be changed with a thought and perhaps loving thoughts each moment that you can will change the outlook on how you respond to this impact on your life. In Truth , The Lighted Ones |
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Will my husband get a job soon or not? |
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Your life will be changing in the near future. Give blessings and gratitude for the wonderful changes in your life . Be positive and enjoy what is here now and project your dreams for the future to be now and above all be happy. Life is due to change ..welcome it in your mind and heart now . In Light, The Lighted Ones |
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What does she choose to do with her life? What are her projections for the future? What is it she truly wants inside? When the answers are clear, your world and hers will change. In truth, The Lighted Ones |
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What are the chances that my girlfriend will get her job back since she has been suspended? |
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I am currently working as a sales administrator , my dream was to be a social worker , I want to persue my dream and study for that , would I be happy there. |
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You would be happy there yes and more importantly you are a happy person by your nature. So follow your heart and give to yourself so that you can create more joy in your world. Be joy, be creative, and follow your heart. Blessings in happiness, The Lighted Ones |
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My name is Bontle. I would like to know when will my partner and I get back together. |
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You are destined to find joy in the smallest of pleasures, in the breath that you take, in the beauty that surrounds you. Be still and see the world around you and allow the energies to fill you. Be you and let joy be with you. Your world is only as happy as you allow it to be. We cannot give to you this answer and dreams are going to change in your heart. Be appreciative with the life as it is now and be love. In truth, The Lighted Ones |
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Hello My birthday is 01.07.1982. I have a an excited feeling about the direction my life is heading. Am I kidding myself or are things really going to improve and how and when will I meet my next boyfriend. There is some one that has left an impression on me... Will my next boyfriend be the real deal or am I doomed for another failed relationship. Thanks |
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You are excited about life as it is beginning to open up for you. Be positive and stay calm as the rivers of opportunity meet up with you and whisk you away. Be present in the moment and love what you are , what you are doing, and who you are with. Look past the moment of Now only so far as to make a mental projection of a loving life. Be still and be happy. In light of your love, Then Lighted Ones |
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I am in a finance field but I am considering changing my career to logistics, is it a good move? At what age do you think I will be ready to have kids because I am now 27 years,not married but I feel my biological clock is tick fast. Dorcas |
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Let us say this to you ..your world is only what you make of it, what you enjoy doing you will be successful. So any move in the direction of your heart is important. Be enjoying changes as they come to you and know that all aspects of your life are in right timing. In Light, The Lighted Ones |
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Should I quit my relationship? |
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We will only advise you to follow your heart. What is it you choose to do? What is it you want for your life? When you come from your heart ..all your answers are made clear for you ...as is the way to take steps towards your goals. In Light of Your understanding, The Lighted Ones |
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I would like to find out if marriage with the man I am about to marry, will last. Also about my career, if this is where I am destined to be or if there are better prospects? Lastly, how should I handle my finances better? |
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It is important to take control over your own life. Will anything last? Only if you choose that goal and work towards it. Think only of harmony and love and how you can further those thoughts into your relationships with all of life. Be prepared to move into any goal that you have set for yourself and do so with love. What you believe ... you create. In Light, The Lighted Ones |
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Need to know the future in my current job |
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This is a difficult question as some things are not predetermined and there is much that you may change quite shortly. You may find yourself with an opportunity to expand your thoughts and create a broader vision. In that you still have a clean slate , a new set of ideas to work with....What will you do with it? How will you create more in your life to find joy inside, to be more creative? To be happier? In truth, The Lighted Ones |
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Can you describe my twinsouil, soulmate? My name is Cece M born 05/04/56 I am in Tularosa , New Mexico |
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The answer to this is that you have yet to meet this person. When you feel a kinship, a belonging, an answering response in your heart, a knowingness that this person shares a past. When you know without a doubt that you are home..then you have met your twin. But remember that soul mates also are here to help you grow and learn so is not an easy relationship and can be rather demanding for your own growth. Look for the eyes to tell you their truth. Blessings to your understanding, The Lighted Ones |
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I would like to know if my financial status will improve in the near future? |
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Know that as you dream and your beliefs are centered in that dream ..it will materialize. Listen now to your inner wisdom and be prepared to act with sured-ness. Do not take chances but follow what is definitely the direction towards your dreams. When you are conscious of creating a better future..it will occur. In light of your understanding that you create your world, The Lighted Ones |
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I would like to know if I should stay in my current relationship. |
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What we have to tell you is this...You must follow your heart and know that it will not lead you astray. Come from love, meditate on love, and ask for direction within. You will find that you already have that answer. Find you and you find your answers. In knowingness, The Lighted Ones |
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Have a problem with my daughter, I have cut her hair and she feels I have taken away her beauty and other things, do you think she might do anything silly (like trying to commit suicide) to punish me? I was just trying to get her attention. |
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When you act from your heart you create love in your life. When you act in impulse or spite you create rifts in energy that need to be balanced out. Send loving energy to those you have felt disturbances in the love that is between you and allow that to permeate your thoughts. Be with love and always come from your heart and all will be peaceful for you. In love with all life, The Lighted Ones |
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Should me and my husband stay together? Confused abt this |
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It is time to sit down and ask yourself if what is currently happening in your life brings to you joy. There is always a reason two people come together and to know that we do not see your completions in this relationship yet. Be still within and find joy in your heart and then open to love. See how you change and then your world about you. Be at peace change is here...but it is change within yourself first. In light of your dreams, The Lighted Ones |
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Goodday, Should we sell our house and by somewhere else Thank you and Regards |
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You should only move when you are feeling compelled to leave an area. Are you dissatisfied with your current home place or are you looking to be more at peace within? Let you sit with peace first then decide to change what is not working for you. Life will take on a surprising twist and you will be happy. That is all we can tell you as the decisions in your life are ultimately yours. In truth, The Lighted Ones |
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Will my relationship with my husband last longer?? Thanks S. |
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It will not last when love is not present. See for yourself where you are heading in mind and thought. See where you can choose a different way of expressing love. If you do not start then where will it lead? Be at peace within yourself and answer from your heart this question. Do you choose to be in this relationship? In light , The Lighted Ones |
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“Dear Pamela” I have the problem at home my boyfriend has been attacked by the stroke all of his left side of his body is not working at all. Please now I need the prayer from the other people like you and I think that would solve the problem.We are staying together either we are not married yet we have three kids now I find my self in bad situation and I can’t concetrate even to what ever I’m doing at work.My life is upside down I believe to God anything I’m doing I always pray to him first but now this is wors I can’t satnd for it. Please, Please,” Oh Please” I need the help desparately. “Yours on the name of God”. |
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I have added your plea to the healing page so that others can also assist in sending to you the light and love to your situation. Blessings, Pamela Know that all aspects of your world will change. Believe in you now and be confident in change. See what you desire in life to be yours. Know that the universe will provide you with better situations when you can believe in them. Visualize what it is you desire and let the universe have your dream. In Truth , The Lighted Ones |
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I am married I have 2 kids the 3rd one is on its way I would like to know if I will get my job back at Mango Airlines I was 10/05/1974 I would also like to know whether we will move back to Durban we live in Johannesburg now |
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At this present time your focus will be on bringing forth life in a loving way. Be knowing that you do not need any job at this time other than being in charge of your family. Know that funding will be coming to allow that to be so. Blessings to you and your life, The Lighted Ones |
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When will I meet my future husband |
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When you are ready to commit to an opportunity of life that will bring about challenges and also fulfillment. We say be pleased with who you are and where you are and know that love finds you when you are love. Be still and be knowing that life will change in its own time. In truth, The Lighted Ones |
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Hi, I have been fighting so hard to keep my relationship (family) together is this worth the fight or am I fighting a losing battle. Thanks |
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Stop fighting and just allow what will be to happen. Just allow others to be who they are and you just understand that you cannot take charge of their thoughts and emotions. Meditate on love and see yourself in a loving situation. Know that love is you and see its expression in your world. You will feel at peace knowing what you are guided to do will come from your heart first and then your thoughts. With blessings, The Lighted Ones |
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I am currently self-employed working as a Tax and Medical aid Claims consultant working from home. However, I experience a problem when I suppose to get paid for the work done as most my clients take long to pay me and ultimately I suffer problems as I am always behind with my bills payments and the situation is getting desperate as I started to look for employment but so far in vain. Please help me to get to understand my situation. I was born at Tembisa, Kempton Park region and my date of birth is 10th February 1969. Regards |
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You are not allowing yourself the freedom to be free of worries when you are not definite in what you expect from life. All that your clients are showing to you is that you do not have expectations for yourself. You will find that by setting up a thought pattern whereby you see yourself always getting paid in time and with generosity and not wavering from that thought ...that your life changes. See you as being happy and living in the circumstances that you choose and do not let yourself worry. Know that it will be and be happy. This lesson is one in which you are understanding how to create your boundaries and control your thoughts. How to manifest with your truths for yourself and seeing your worth. Quite a lot in one small package. In truth, The Lighted Ones |
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Hi I got married again this year after divorcing in 2004. I just want to know if this marriage will last and if our plans for the future are on the right track. |
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What you have is today. So for today be happy. Make plans yes but ask nothing more than to be love and joy in this moment. We see that happiness is always present when love is present. Be love. Plans and dreams when coming from love are always in right order. Be happy. In truth, The Lighted Ones |
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I meet this girl, I love her very much but she doesn't even give me attention, but sometimes we do communicate, they worsed he sad she is not over her ex. how can u advise me in this, cause she mean a world to me |
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Be there for her as a confidant , as a friend, if it is to develop into more she will have to make the moves. Know that true love asks nothing from an individual but for their love and harmony to be present within. In Light of your understanding, The Lighted Ones |
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I’m sinking in DEBTS, I just want to know when am I going to be free, do I have to look for another job? |
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Let you be guided to making decisions to better your situation. Be still and ask within for your answer. Know that as you believe that more wealth can be yours...so will be the means to acquire that. It may seem to be more work but in the end we feel that you will find true happiness in your life. Be still and meditate on your dreams, The Lighted Ones |
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I have just found a permanent job from previous 2months, right now there is another company offering me another promising job. I want know what choice to make. |
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Do what your heart tells you will be most fulfilling for you. Be still, meditate and ask for the choice to be made clear for you. In that way the decisions you make in your life will be of your choice. Be knowing that is the only true way of living. In Truth, The Lighted Ones |
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I am a lady aged 27 years old, single parent. My question to you is do u see any future in terms of my current job and my love life. Because when it comes it comes to love I never seem to get right I always meet the wrong people. Worried |
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Know in your heart that you are a loving and kind person and attract that love and kindness to you. Be enjoying the small things in life right now . Give blessings to that which you have in your life right now. Do not seek involvement but let the universe guide love to you. Be in Joy, the Lighted Ones |
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Hi, Just need to know...will i ever have another child??? please help me..... |
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There is still that possibility. Blessings to you, The Lighted Ones |
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Should i stay in my current relationship |
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Only if you are happy and love who you are in relationship to where you are. Our blessings to your joy, The Lighted Ones |
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Please help me. I don’t have the answers but these are my questions What do I do to get the happiness I deserve? When will I become financially stable and how? Should I be leaving my current job? Will I get that job that I applied for? Am I a good enough mother to my daughters? Should I leave my husband? |
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When you find that your thoughts and your heart are in conjunction and sympathize which each other, when you dream and know that your dreams can come true, when you reach for the stars knowing that they are at your fingertips.... then and only then will you find your path opening up for you with a speed that will astound you. Find you and then know what you desire most...then you will see that what you choose in your life will come true. Our blessings to your discovery, The Lighted Ones |
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Will i get the position i applied for in my division for promotion. |
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Will you find joy in the way your life is now leading you? Do you stretch your heart to find what it is you truly want in life? Do you know that life is ready to answer your beliefs in your circumstances? Reach high in your thoughts and be joyful for each new day to begin. In light of your understanding, The Lighted Ones |
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Is there a possibility of a reunion between my husband and I? If not how will the divorce proceedings go? What about my work? Are there any prospects for the future? This year seems to be a year of challenge and pain for me. What will I learn or what am I supposed to learn from all this? Lucky |
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Be at peace, yes changes are here for you aand now is an opportunity for you to decide how you choose your life to be. You will find that when you just love and be living with love in your heart that all things run smoother. You are learning to let go and surrender yourself to your own manifestations of creativity and joy. Be knowing that change is here. Now is the time for you to meditate on what you choose in life. In joy for your surrender to life, The Lighted Ones |
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I would like to know what you see in my career as I have been offered an estate agency franchise opportunity to run with 7 other people, will it be successful, when will I finish my degree, have I already met my husband and when will I get married? |
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You are asking for life to be revealed to you rather than to just live it moment by moment. the joy in living this life is to experience it to its fullness. Be here in the present moment and make decisions based on what your heart says to do. Be knowing that when you choose to do something, when you choose for it to be successful....it will. You are to live life with love and joy, and anything else Is not worthy of your soul. Be at peace and live life with harmony. Our blessings to your Now, The Lighted Ones |
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Morning, i just want to find out as to when am i going to get my ideal job, presently im very frustrated with what im doing. regards lucy |
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There is always an ideal job when you come from your heart and do what you love to do. Expand your thoughts and figure out exactly what would bring to you the most joy..then follow the path towards that goal. Belief in oneself is essential here as well as knowing what you would love to do. Our blessings to your discovery of self The Lighted Ones |