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Dearest Pamela I recently saw you on TV and decided to go onto your website. I was recently told to seek out the help of a spiritual healer and was not sure if you are who I should talk to. I need guidance in respect of my personal life.Nothing ever seems to go smoothly and I was told that serious spiritual healing was needed. Can you help me by letting me know what I can do? DOB: 12/04/82 Sincerely, Sash

"Spiritual healing is recognizing that you are a Divine being and acting in this world as one. Coming from your heart and creating your life as you see it to be. Knowing that you are what you believe yourself to be. Correcting your thoughts in a manner that recognizes that love is your greatest allay in creating your dreams. Love is and will be the greatest motivation, the greatest joy, and the greatest creator of your life. Know what your truth is and know that as you see and believe your truth to be...so it will be created. When you believe in your own abilities to manifest your own world then you are in conscious creation. Now it is time to do so. What do you want? How do you see your life being in regard to how you operate in the world you live in? How do you see your own being living in this world? Once you have answered these question ..Be, See, and think no thoughts differently. Watch as how you change inside of you that the world changes around you to fit those beliefs. Life can be made into dreams... so you are living the dream you choose. Our blessings be to you in your discoveries, The Lighted Ones"

Q	Hi There I recently started a new relationship, I still have my old boyfriend who isn’t ideal for me since he’s married, but I’m feeling that I’m more comfortable with the married man rather than the new man in my life. What must I do? Nomcebo
A	There is no future with one who is committed to another in his heart. Do what is necessary to promote what you desire in your life. Let your dreams be fulfilled by knowing that all action and thought move in the direction of harmony and love in your life. And note that what you desire is there for you in all ways. In Truth, The Lighted Ones

I need some guidance on my future - Career, Finances, Family and Marriage. What does the future hold for me?

Your future is predetermined by your thoughts, beliefs, and actions towards your own goals. What do you desire and what energy are you willing to put towards those goals? When you believe in you, when you know that what you want is in your reach then take it one step further and live it as your truth. The greatest wisdom in creation is knowing that as you belive and as you think you create it in your world. Be joyous and thankful and be present in the moment to receive. In Light, The Lighted Ones

Will I ever gain financial strength and comfort? Thanks Phillip

There is no reason for you to be in a state of lack. Lack comes from the lack of understanding of the greatest principals of life which is "The Universe is Abundant". You have only to look around and see the abundance of life about you and to witness it in your world.. know that this creative potential is within you and is destined to show you your life in a much wealthier fashion. Know that richness comes form believing that it is there for everyone and your thoughts and love is the creative power to make that happen. Any thoughts that do not conform to your creative thoughts should be eliminated and the end result focused upon. Let the energy flow towards your goals. Happiness is an internal idea, feeling , creation. You allow you to be that and the world rearranges itself to fulfill it. In Truth, The Lighted Ones

I just found out that I am pregnant after 15 years, I don't know what to expect from my boyfriend wehter he will be there for us or not?,,,, Financially im a mess,,,, I need some advice on this matter as I feel like I'm so affraid of my life,,, yet still trying to be enthusiastic?

Now this is what we have to offer you...be happy. Be happy in all ways. Know that as you are happy love is present and change can occur. Be in the moment and know that you are blessed in more ways than one. Do not cling to the old thoughts, and live in the present. Be in a state of joy for there are many factors in play now that will show to you that life is a joy. Be in harmony within and you will thrive in all ways. You will be surprised at the glorious awakenings in your world to happen in a reasonable period of time. Our blessings to you, The Lighted Ones

I am Bontle g. 26 years old. I have had a problem with my foot for two years now. I need help with that. Is the man in my life the one who will marry me? Will i ever get a promotion where i work? Thank you Regards Bontle

When you move with surety in your life you will find that your path leads you to fulfillment of your dreams. When you are in harmony with your desires in thought and mind you will find that you are guided to that which will complete your current dream. Be sure of what you want before continuing on your current path or direction. Take care of yourself and know that healing will be sent and you will be guided to that which will help you. Listen when thoughts are steady and loud and act upon that to finish the healing that has begun. In Love, The Lighted Ones

Dear Pamela,I would like to know if my current boyfriend is still dating the mother of his child and is there any future for us,because things seem to fall apart everytime.Iam not happy with him but I love him very much.

When you are happy with you , when you can live your life as a testimony of love, when you can see yourself as worthy of all that life has to offer you, when you open your arms wide and accept the joy of living a loving life then the world will show you a path of joy and love. Be love and be in love with life and let the change happen in your life. Blessings to you on your journey of love, the Lighted Ones

Pamella, my life has never been perfect but whose has, I’m in a relationship and madly in love, have a good job that has started to pay me well, I’m pregnant with my first child and everything just seems too good, I’m scared something will go wrong. Good things have never just happened to me it’s always been one bad thing after another. Does my future hold any ever lasting happiness? I have a fear that I’m dying.

The light you carry within you is indeed reflecting your inner harmony. Be in a state of mind that indeed your life is blessed, for in all ways that is truth. Live for this moment and take each day as it is presented to you. Fear will not assist you in maintaining such love and devotion to life in its endless variety of expressions. Live with love and know that all changes towards this goal will only assist you to the realization that you are that loving being. Life is change and many changes are brought to your awareness daily. Be love and live fully that expression. In Joyous Celebration of Life, The Lighted Ones

Hi I would like to find out what future do I have in my current job. I am also together with a friend planning a business that has to do with 2010. Sunshine

Believe in your dreams now and let that dream be presented in the world you are involved in. Your current status will always change and the changes will illicit a response that allows you to move forward in your dreams. Move with the energy that compels you to move into your dreams and know that life is creating what you desire. Hold your thoughts to the result rather than the movement to the end result, in this manner you will succeed. In Light, The Lighted Ones

Dear Sir/Madam I feel the unluckiness in my life. Why and what should I do?

Know that as you feel , sense, believe... so it will be so. Change your thoughts and beliefs and let the harmony in. You are lucky in may ways and blessed in others, seek those and give thanks for them each day of your life. Luck is a product of knowing that you can create your life as you choose it to be. Move past the experiences of the past in your mind and move forward to what you choose to create for yourself. Bemoaning the past will not create a healthier future for you. Believe in you , believe in life and create your world differently. In Light of your understanding, The Lighted Ones

will i have wealth?

Why not? Think of all the reasons that you should not live comfortably then think of all the reasons you should. Let your thoughts go to why you can and let that be your first step. Now move along and know that you are creating that aspect in your world. Once you have that truly believable then give thanks for the abundance of love , light , understanding, and financial abundance. Let you think only on the thoughts that create what you choose rather than what you do not choose and it will be so. Each time you think otherwise remember you are creating that also. In truth, The Lighted Ones

Hi Pamela, I would like to know the MAN that I am dating now we LOVE each other very much, will we get married one day or have children or a child. Both of us comes from alot of hurt in our lives. Thanks C.

What you are experiencing is doubt and that stems from the mind and past experiences. Let you take the past and put it behind you. Today is a fresh day to appreciate this moment and what you do have. Life is for living to its fullness and that is living in the present. You are happiest when you let life flow about you and around you and within you, when you live and love in the present moment. Be love and be happy. Life is showering you with joy and endless possibilities. So what do you choose for yourself? In Love, the Lighted Ones

hi,i have a spirit attachment problem,i hear one spirit in my mind,i get physically harrased by this/these spirit/s.I pray everyday to god,jesus,my protectors and michael archangel to send them away but they are still here causing me problems.I am currently seeking help ca. once a week to cut the ties that these spirits have made to my body. I am becoming so desperate by this situation,it seems like it is going to take forever to get rid of these earthbound spirits! I would be so grateful if you(the lighted ones) could check out for me why this is taking so long and maybe tell me if this is going to change for the better some time soon.Thank you pamela and the lighted ones, may God bless all of you!

Let you be you. Know that as you become just you that the voices and words will desist. Let light surround you so that each day is filled with light. Know that what you are experiencing will leave immediately. Light is the absence of discord and is who you are. Be light, be love and be in a golden glow of light. In this manner you will be free of unwanted attachments in your life. Know that light is the essence also to help others see their way to creating change and spirit or form will respond to that. Think of this as a way of giving harmony to those that seek you out. Be love and light in your thoughts and words. Be love and send that out to the world about you. In the state of love there will be peace. Go within and be who you are and all else will respond in your world. In truth and love, The Lighted Ones

Q	I would like to know if I have any future with my present boyfriend as things have been bad between us lately.
A	Let your heart guide you into being love. You will find that changes will happen and you will be more comfortable in the relationship you are now in. Remember that change takes the direction of your thoughts. What are you thinking about now? In Light, The Lighted Ones

Hi. My life has been up and down hill for a while now. I am looking for spontaneous guidance, mostly spiritual guidance. Like something that will wake me up. Like a sign that i can't ignore. I've been praying and meditating and taking some action, but i still feel like something is missing. what do you recommend for me to do to help me and my family out of a troubled time and to stay out. Any advice will help. Thank you.

There are changes for your future coming up for you very soon now. Hold your thoughts and light in the directions you choose to follow. Know that as you listen to your inner guidance you will find the harmony within. Changes are a necessary part of your growth, now is the time to put forward what you choose in your world. Think positively , act in a joyous manner, and believe in you. The signs you seek are subtle and are more likely to guide you rather than shock you into awareness. Follow your heart and be positive for that will help you most. In Light, The Lighted Ones

Q	Good day Pamela, I am thinking of leaving the current job for better salary, do you think I will be successful in getting new job soon with better salary Thank You
A	You have the ability to change any situation in your life if you choose it to be so. Let your heart guide you to the work tht bests suits you and brings you joy. There are many advantages to doing what you love to do and one is that you will look at each day as a joy rather than a buden. Go with peace and harmony and live life in a way that brings you joy. Our blessings to you, The Lighted Ones

Q	Dear Pam Can you please tell me all, that you think is important to me regarding my past, present and future. Regards, Tshepiso
A	What we can tell you about your past is that it is over and has served you well. The present is your decision to be aware and enjoy each moment.... to live life fully and appreciate now. The future is determined by your love and creative potential today, right now. With light, The Lighted Ones

Q	I was born on 24 February 1974,will I ever find true love?
A	Yes you will. With light, The Lighted Ones

My daughter Monique comitted suicide 3 and a half years ago . she said in her last letter that she had all the love from us that a child ever needed . I just need to know if she had planned this and i heard from a few people that she did not really want to die . This is driving me crazy . thanks so much

The soul that was your child indeed knew what she was doing in order to create the desired outcome. Remember that each soul chooses it physical demise when the time is near . It was a harmonious decision made. There are many reasons for a soul to change the life it knows to one of another and your child chose that expression to understand the ability to have control. For in that she had design of her life. Be in peace and know that what the soul did what the soul did in love. In light, The Lighted Ones

my husband and i are having problems regarding our relationship but still love each other can you tell us if we will be ok?

When you are guided by that love you have for each other , when you see the light from your eyes reach his, when you know that being together is worth a few joys to diminish for appreciation of later great happiness, when you both realize that life together at this time is worth working towards....then you will know that you have achieved your dreams. Then yes is the answer. In love is the only truth, The Lighted Ones

I am in the process of resigning from my current job. I have applied for another job and I want to know if I am making the right decision or should I start something of my own instead? In love and Light

What does your heart tell you to do? What is it that excites you enough to joyfully anticipate rising for your day? What brings you joy? The answers to those questions will fill your heart with joy and allow you to experience your life with ease and happiness. You are at a point of self discovery and this point of awareness will set a course of understanding to you in all ways. Be happy and know that life fulfills your beliefs in yourself. In truth, The Lighted Ones

I Known my husband for 15 year and have been married to him for 11 years. I have been under the impression that all was well. But a few weeks ago our life changed completely and he started coming home late and sometimes even slept outside. When I confronted him about our changed life he told me that he is seeing somebody and that this person was pregnant with his child. I would like to know whether I should fight to keep him or that I should walk out of this relationship. I feel used. Please assist!

Your life is yours to choose . You choose your path at this time. What we can tell you to assist you is that you have another road to travel and a new life to begin and this starts within you. The circumstances of the past can not be undone and your world has changed. Be with that change and be loving inside of you. When you harbor anger ..you assist the energies to only hurt yourself. Be at peace and know that there are great things to come to you later in this week or even month that will help you to decide on a new course for you to travel. Yes change is here. Be with that change. Honor it and love it for the future now will show you why. Be loving and be kind to others and to yourself. Greatness and awakenings are achieved in that state of consciousness. Be peace and be love and find that your path begins to open up for you in a wonderful way. Change is the necessity of growth for all souls. In light of your understanding, The Lighted Ones

Q	What do you see me doing, or what shall I do after I complete my PhD within the next 6-9 months? I am 58 years old and not many doors are open to me because of my age. Peace,
A	There is a reason you have chosen this course of action in your life. There is reason you were guided to it now and in your future. Relax and see what occurs for you in the future and know that you are guided in this. Your wisdom will assist many. In Light, The Lighted Ones

I was a teacher for nearly ten years I just needed a self empowerment I resaine and try to astablish a transport business but it never went well,now I working temporaly as a invigilator but I need a permanet Job because I had to provide for my wife and two lovely kids which are boys we need a house our own and a car as a neccesecity for our family activities so How can I achieve this . Yes I do have qualifications even now I'm studing marketing soon me and my wife we want to do a african traditional wedding so the ansistors could open our ways in life not forgeting The Lord.even now I suspect that my wife is cheating 'couse no enougth income in our house please do help.

What you require is to believe in the guidance that is coming to you now. Believe in you and notice how your world changes. What you need keeps your world needing. Ask for what you desire and know that you will be guided to what makes that occur in your world. Belief , Trust , and acting on what your heart tells you to do is an important step if not the step to producing your end dreams. Be love and light and give blessings to that which you know to be your truth, that of prosperity. In Light , The Lighted Ones

Q	Hi there Will I ever find a man who loves me and will I ever get married?
A	When you love life and love you , when your life emanates out to others for no purpose but to love, when you seek joy in experiencing love then all your dreams will come true. With love, The Lighted Ones

Hi, I am in a realtionship with 2 guys, but I haven't seen the 1 in almost 2 weeks. I really like him. The other is someone i've known for 8 years, we used to be an item before. I then got together with someone else and had a child. After my son's father and I broke up, I found out that this guy is still interested. So we got together. I'd like to know how they feel about me. Who should I stick with? Is there love anywhere for me? I'm Confused

What question you should be asking of yourself is how do you love them, where does your heart lie? What is your purpose in this life but to know love and joy within yourself. Spirit moves you when you ask within to be guided and spirit is with you. Follow your heart and be love to yourself first and know that the love you give to everyone else will attract to you one who is worthy and as giving as you. In Light, The Lighted Ones

I just need to know about the growth in spiritual life and also my personal relationship. Am I gonna find someone who will love me sincerely since I was divorce long time ago (1991) and also about business side

When you believe in your own self and know that you can achieve your dreams the universe opens up for you. You design your life. What do you want and can you see the possibility as happening now? Can you trust in that which you believe and think upon... you create? Your life is up to you and now is the time to make it work for you. You are its creator. Be love and be happy and choose your purpose and direction so that you are happy. Be in joy, The Lighted Ones

Q	Will my financial position improve.
A	Do what your heart tells you to do. Follow adventure where it may lead. Take a chance with life for life Is now beginning to open up for you. Be happy and joyful and let the universe assist you to the road of your dreams. Be at peace and know what you desire is attainable. With willingness to trust and move forward. In Light, The Lighted Ones

hi my name is shieyaam i feel like giving up on life because i had a disappointment with my childs father he chase me away when i was 2 months pregnant my son is 2 years old now and the father is ignoring my son please help me please!!!!!

When you allow others to influence in your life then you are not living. Be who you are and remember that there is one whose love is needed from you, your child. Do not look to renew the past but know that the future holds many fond memories and that these memories will be ones that you are aware of ....what was and what will be. Be at peace and know that the days you spend in harmony within yourself will create a future worth having. Perhaps to understand that better things are coming your way, not now but soon. Let go of what does not serve you and recognize that one who will be love will come into your world... and be happy. For todays joy spawns tomorrows future. In Light, The Lighted Ones

I lost my brother in a sudden and mysterious illness in on 18 March 2007. He was only sick for two weeks. He left a wife and two kids, 9 and 8. We also discovered that he had a 12 year old son that he got from a previous girlfriend before his relationship with the wife. Now I want to accept my brother’s son even though my brother never brought him to meet the family. My principle is that the boy is still my blood and I must take care of his needs, where possible. The wife does not want to accept the son and is angry that we are more accepting. The family would like her to accept the child so that he is able to visit the family and get to know my brothers other children. What I would like to know is that is it reasonable for the family to expect her to accept the child and can my late brother’s spirit intervene and change her heart? Thank you

Thank you for your question. This indeed is a matter of the heart. Let you know that the child is indeed worthy of your love and any others. It does not matter that the child is from a woman that is not married to your family. What matters is that the child is loved. You cannot do anything higher for a soul than to accept and love him or her. Be knowing that you can not control how any one will react or change their ways. There is lessons for all here. Let there be peace and let there also be knowing that love will prevail. Let the energy of Peace and Love permeate your being and that others can feel and change within themselves. We are knowing that acceptance will be there. In light of understanding, The Lighted Ones

Q	Hi Am I on the right career path?? Thank You
A	You are always on the path of your choice and if your light shines brightly on this endeavor... stay with it. If your joy is still there with this path...stay on it. Your heart should guide you and be prepared to allow it it's expression always. Change only when you feel that the events in your life are the ones compelling you to do so. Be at peace and love living. In Light, The Lighted Ones

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